Electronic Parenting
As we close out this decade I am reminded of the amazing advancements in technology that have changed the way we live. Do you realize what technology was like 10 years ago?
- No iPhones or smart phones – just the analog featureless ”bricks”
- No Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, YouTube or Wikipedia
- No “texting” each other
- No iPods or other MP3 players
- No USB flash drives
- No High-speed Internet at home
- No flatscreen TVs
- AOL was the most popular Internet search engine
- Google, Inc. moved from a garage into an actual office
- And, we recorded our favorite TV shows on VHS tapes
Isn’t it amazing how much we have grown dependent on technology in just 10 years? In 1997, I transitioned from active duty in the Marine Corps to civilian life. At the time I had no cell phone and managed just fine without one for the following 3 years. But in 2000 my son was born and both my wife and I began carrying cell phones for emergency purposes. Now today it is an emergency when I can’t find my phone. How did I come so dependent on a small piece of technology? It just seems to happen without any notice. I have watched son and now my daughter grow into little personalities oblivious to the fact that there was a day when there were no Wii’s or OnDemand or 1,951 channels on the TV.
I now have the time-saving convenience of adding more money to my child’s school lunch account electronically. I can block home TV channels and websites from my office at work. I can now give my child a special kid-safe cell phone that only calls me and has built-in GPS tracking so I can tell where they are geographically. On the surface, such technological developments of this past decade are gladly welcomed and embraced but I am just wondering… have these amazing technologies paved way for us as parents to stop parenting on a personal, intimate basis? Instead of just adding more money to their school lunch account do I take the time to teach them Christ-centered financial stewardship of money God has trusted us with? Instead of just blocking a website, do I take the time to teach my son or daughter what websites God doesn’t want them to visit? Have I begun to place more faith in technology and what I can do with it while overlooking God’s provisions and protection? Likely, I am in some way guilty of allowing technology diminish my role as a Daddy. As we enter this new year, may we take time to reflect on all that God has already done for us and still wants to do in us. May we trust God more than ever before and walk in the ways He has designed for us. Have a Happy New Year celebration!!!

on a main road next to a church. It is no wonder Mr. Paine had so much hatred and anger towards specific establishments such as government, authority, The Bible and church – he was attempting to make sense of it all with his own mind. I am afraid many Christians do the same thing. Approaching such things from an intellectual or emotional perspective will always prove problematic. Governments are flawed, authority is often abused and unfair, The Bible with its many translational errors and the church with many hypocrites and phonies. Yet, God says that the believer has nothing to fear as they live the abundant life. God promises to grant understanding for those troublesome things of life – but do we trust in God to do so? James tells the follower of Christ in James 1:5 that if we are lacking in understanding of an issue we are to ask of it from God who will give it to us abundantly. I hope that in some way this helps you in your daily journey as it helps me.
This last week while I was out picking up a few last minutes gifts I drove past a church I know well. Throughout the year they will sponsor spaghetti dinners, pancake breakfasts and flea markets for various good causes all well advertised on their brightly lit sign. But this time something on their sign caught my eye enough for a double take: Xmas.
United Nation’s Climate conference regarding global warming. For several years now the general public has listened to Al Gore, groups of scientists and university professors as well as scores of Hollywood actors tell us of the impending doom coming to our fragile planet due to our increased usage of fossil fuels. We have been challenged and rebuked in movies like ‘An Inconveninet Truth’: the “Oscar® winning documentary that made global warming the number one topic of conversation.” Mr. Gore while speaking at the climate summit, claimed his latest research showed that the Arctic could be completely ice-free in five years. Yet, once again the general public has come to know that his information was fabricated after being taken and manipulated from scientist Dr. Wieslav Maslowski’s research. Yet, millions of dollars continue to be spent supporting these false claims.
